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Thursday, September 27, 2012
Bondage Sex Tip
I saw a bondage pic today that I feel I must address. I'm not sharing the picture because it shows an unsafe practice that comes up frequently.
When using a flogger NEVER let it whip/wrap around the side of the sub (or other curves). Floggers are difficult to control and a Dom must always be in control of himself/herself and their toys. When you whip/wrap it around you're hitting a spot that you can't see and you're loosing control of that part of the flogger. The second you loose control of yourself, your toys, or the scene the sub's trust in you erodes. How much erosion of trust occurs depends on the sub and the Dom's relationship with the sub.
Floggers are advance toys. Take the time to learn control so we don't have a rash of subs with internal organ damage.
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